He’s Perhaps Maybe Maybe Not Gay, He’s Got Gay Tendencies. You’ve got concerns? He’s got responses! Want advice?

You notice, Ms. Small-Town-Confusion, we put guys like your buddy within the group of, He’s Not Gay, But he’s got Gay Tendencies. What I mean by this might be their mannerisms and actions would make one instantly assume, based solely on observation, these are generally homosexual. Yet, while you become familiar with these males, have actually discussion, and spend time using them, you find they’re not homosexual, they’ve been simply somewhat effeminate. And, it might be in line with the known fact they consult with a lisp, utilize their fingers if they talk, carry man-bags, and like being well-groomed. Those usually do not make a person homosexual.

Even taste Kayne West doesn’t gay that is equal. He makes good music. But, in the event the guy is performing in a falsetto sound, tracks by, Whitney Houston and Beyonce, and then he understands the routine to “Single Ladies, ” then uhm, woman, he could be homosexual.

But, i really do with you when he said people think he’s gay, and asked if you had a problem with it like he was upfront. Many males would run and get away from the subject, rather than share just just what other people consider their sexuality. For me it shows he could be confident with whom he could be. And, with himself he wants to know if you are if he is comfortable. And, you him told you had been.

Therefore, inform your cousin don’t be hating yourself a Big City man before her because you snagged. Date him and also have enjoyable. Now, then, girl, let him keep his city ways to himself! – Straight, From Your Gay Best Friend if every time you have sex he wants to go in the ‘backdoor!

Dear Gay Closest Friend,

10 years ago my male roomie said he previously the man that is perfect me personally. It had been a close buddy of his, “David, ” a police, whom lived within the Bay area. My roomie called David, in which he travelled to north park to satisfy me. We hit it off and possess been dating from the time.

But, with time I’ve noticed some plain items that make me concern David’s sex.


David nevertheless lives within the Bay area and flies down seriously to spend some time beside me. For the previous six years we have actually resided in my destination perhaps perhaps maybe not past an acceptable limit from a residential district called, Hillcrest, that has a big homosexual populace. Nonetheless, David is often asking concerning the Hillcrest area. We keep thinking to myself, “Why is he so enthusiastic about Hillcrest? ”

One time he had been displaying the homosexual rainbow bracelet and a necklace that is short. We made him to take wax off and told him it represented an individual who had been homosexual. He stated he didn’t realize that. And, then, often whenever he’s nude he puts their “Johnson” between their legs and states one thing absurd and I also begin to wonder. Additionally, he’s super neat and clean, a lot more therefore than me personally.

Recently, we had been speaking and I also casually, but really asked, “Are you gay? ” He flipped and said, “What the f**k sort of question is. ” together with argument began. We didn’t talk for a day or two. I finally called him and apologized and now we composed.

Each and every time I’ve kicked him into the curb for one thing he comes straight back. I wish to get hitched but, David was hitched previously. He could be divorced with an adult child. We don’t have actually any issues when you look at the guys area, and I also love males strictly, but i enjoy David and am unsure how to proceed.

We just had a quarrel in which he stated you will find males in the police who will be when you look at the wardrobe and select to do this. He stated it is easier for the males to disguise their sex than females from the force. Is he providing me signals? Have always been We being paranoid? – “A Sista Would Like To Know”